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No guy wants to feel his self-identity being crushed under the weight of circumstances he had no hand in creating. Whether or not you planned to be a father, there may also be a kid who falls in love with you, too.
Be ready to feel like a queen! And many single guys-the cold-blooded, manipulative mercenary types in particular-can smell it on you a mile away. As I wrote here, I need an alpha.
the game is not the same
Have a nice day. In our subconscious, we connect to our primordial heritage via the modern ritual of seeking out a partner for life, or for tonight.
And when he kisses me I know he will take my face in his hand and pull me to him. Or that the advantage of his youth overrides my seniority, and my status as a mother -- while an positive in the eyes of many -- is generally considered a hinderance on the dating scene.
Younger men admire older women and single mothers alike.
Older men have had enough time to experiment and learn what women want. You may have been with a woman who was close to her family. Everything counts as double. If you're lacking in one vertical, it can be made up for in another. When you were single and in your 20s, you had not a care in the world.
They admire and love our independence. Steady text-streaming while each of you carpools kids around town leads to formal date nights that involve hiring sitters and end with late-night conversations while lying on the grass in his backyard.
He practically has to kick you out of his studio apartment and remind you that you have kids waiting at home.
For the bachelor not yet burdened with a family, few scenarios are as daunting as dating a single mother.
Younger men are more modern. So if you are what they want, they will no doubt treasure you and take the direct approach when it comes to convincing you that you should be with them.
The crucial point to keep in mind is that if you fall into the category of believer, then you have to wipe the slate clean and adopt a new philosophy if a single mother has captured your attention, or heart.
Older men have had more time to experience women in their roles as a mother and chances are they have their own kids. To be honest, I think some of it is logical, but I also believe that a generalization does not do people justice. Older men know what they want in a woman.
At least not long-term.