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With "Aldgate East", we had to walk through a pub to get to the bedroom and I swear there was a train going through the lounge. If he swipes you too, it lights up like a game, then asks if you want to keep playing. In "real life", he was the ultimate knob.

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If we'd met another way, that could have been a blip, an awkward beginning. Sometimes I had nothing in common with the guy but there was a sexual spark.

Instead of "boyfriend hunting", searching for an exact copy of my ex, why not get out there, enjoy dating, have a good laugh — and, if I felt a connection, some good sex too? Sally is no longer on Tinder, having met a man four months ago.

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By summer, I needed something to take the pain away. I never dreamed I'd end up dating 57 men in less than a year. He didn't fit with my politics, my views, I'd never have introduced him to my friends. It could just be fun.

Another — who started promisingly — changed after his second drink, spilling a glass of wine on me without apologising, and cutting me off each time I spoke.

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It could be to a bar around the corner, or somewhere fabulous — Berner's Tavern, the Chiltern Firehouse. He's older than me and didn't want to waste time with Tinder any more.

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After a few dates with "Manchester", I agreed to visit his hotel room next time he was in London. When you're matched, you can spend days — in some cases, weeks, months — exchanging messages, texting and working yourselves up, filling in the gaps with your imagination.

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The sex was over in seconds — a massive anticlimax after such a build-up. You go through what's there, if you see someone you like, you swipe right.

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Most of the guys I met were looking for sex, rarely were they after a relationship. Then, in Februarymy partner dumped me. I hate to say it, but sex in a relationship beats casual sex. I'd always been diligent about practising safe sex, but he had trouble getting in the mood with the condoms and went against my wishes at the last moment.

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After just a few dates, he booked us a night in a fancy Kensington hotel. If five days pass with no messaging between you, it's history. Four months ago, I met a man — "Hackney Boy" — through Advice dating a married man and at first, I carried on seeing him and dating others.

The next morning I wrote him an angry text. I met one guy who was a likely contender for a boyfriend. Yes, the rush of meeting someone new — new bed, new bodies — can, occasionally, be great. The possibilities pile up.

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I didn't feel comfortable taking someone back to my place, as he'd then know where I lived, and I live alone.